Lindsey’s stepmom, Becky, sent this 5th grade picture of Lindsey and her dad, Dale, with the well wishes “I hope your wedding is just like you imagined when you were younger.”

For those not familiar with this part of her lore, her dad used too much spirit gum to glue the mask on and she had to miss school the following day because the mask and bald cap wouldn’t come off. This was also the first party where girls opted for delicate, cute, appealing costumes. So. There’s that.